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Self-Leadership Center of Oklahoma


Trained in IFS
There’s a lot of talk these days in IFS circles about training – who’s authorized, who’s “certified,” who’s truly qualified to teach or practice Internal Family Systems. Scroll through social media long enough and you’ll see it: therapists introducing themselves with titles like “Level 3-trained” or “the only certified IFS therapist in my area.” There’s a kind of quiet hierarchy in those words – an implication that certification equals mastery, that the Institute’s blessing
Brandt Ratcliff
Oct 232 min read
Happy Mother’s/Father’s/You Day
Mother’s Day and Father’s Day can be beautiful. They can also be brutal. For those whose lives fit neatly inside the Hallmark frame – the...
Brandt Ratcliff
Jul 83 min read


Stay Gold
I first met The Outsiders when I was a kid – a wide-eyed student swallowed up by S. E. Hinton’s world of Greasers and Socs, cracked...
Brandt Ratcliff
May 273 min read
Coming Soon: The Case for the Self-Led Life
There’s a quiet revolution underway. Not the kind that makes headlines or hashtags — but the kind that reshapes lives from the inside...
Brandt Ratcliff
Apr 243 min read


Embracing Self-Leadership
In our increasingly chaotic Western world, the concept of self-leadership emerges as a beacon of hope and transformation. It invites us...
Brandt Ratcliff
Oct 2, 20244 min read


Strength from Within: Self-Leadership in a Politically Charged Era
We all know the potential of Internal Family Systems (IFS) therapy for bringing hope and healing to our clients. As many of my colleagues...
Brandt Ratcliff
Jul 7, 20247 min read


Soothing Firefighters in Real-Time
Nothing can escalate arguments, disagreements, or random acts of unfortunate circumstances quite like our protective firefighters - the...
Brandt Ratcliff
Dec 28, 20234 min read


Self-Led Discussions with Your Partner
As a therapist who has embraced the Self-Leadership model both professionally and personally, I've discovered the transformative power it...
Brandt Ratcliff
Dec 10, 20233 min read


Book Review: "Good Morning, Monster" by Catherine Gildiner
About a year ago, I was told about this book from one of my clients. I'm always looking for good reads, and I was genuinely impressed by...
Brandt Ratcliff
Nov 28, 20233 min read


Healing with Playfulness
Healing is often seen as a serious and solemn process, but what if I told you that playfulness can be a powerful catalyst for...
Brandt Ratcliff
Nov 25, 20232 min read


Navigating and Mastering the Holiday Circus
Family gatherings: where each relative brings their unique twist. Let’s delve into an Internal Family Systems (IFS) survival guide with...
Brandt Ratcliff
Nov 19, 20232 min read


Empowering Kids with Self-Leadership Tools
Parenting is a remarkable journey, and if you're like me, you're always looking for ways to empower your children to navigate life with...
Brandt Ratcliff
Nov 18, 20232 min read


Healing without Labels
Therapy is often seen through a pathologizing lens, but what if I told you there's a different way to heal? In this blog post, we'll...
Brandt Ratcliff
Nov 4, 20232 min read
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