The Self-Led Man

This is not a program on '"how to be a man." It's a journey on how to be yourself.

What it is

The Self-Led Man is an immersive program inviting men to move beyond performance and into authentic presence - to examine the stories we inherited about manhood, meet the parts within us that protect and ache, and reclaim power not as dominance, but as grounded integrity. Through guided reflection, parts work, embodied practice, and brotherhood, participants will learn to lead from the inside out - integrating strength with compassion, courage with vulnerability, and purpose with connection. This is not about becoming a “better man,” but about becoming your whole self - the one capable of leading your life, your relationships, and your world with clarity and heart.

What’s Included

• Two Retreats (Kickoff + Culmination)
  – 2 nights each (Friday evening–Sunday morning)
  – Hotel lodging included (private room)
  – Some meals provided by hotel
  – Deep dives into Self-Leadership practices with experiential sessions

• Every Other Week Gatherings (8 meetings across 4 months)
  – In-person group sessions exploring monthly themes (1.5 hour gatherings)
  – Practices and conversations for exploring identity and authentic relating

• Weekly Email Readings and Prompts
  – Journal reflections, practices, and “IRL experiments” to integrate the theme of the week

• Community + Support
  – A cohort of participants journeying together
  – Shared space to connect, reflect, and support each other

Investment

$400 deposit + $125/month × 5 months = $950 total

• Includes lodging for both retreats (4 nights total), 2 group meals, and workbook materials

• Limited participants for each cohort

Who This Is For

• Men who want to live in wholeness and integrity

• Men who long for authenticity and community

• Men ready to invest in four months of growth, depth, and connection

How To Join

• Secure your spot: Make your $400 deposit today 

• Limited spots for each cohort